life lessons by mufti menk -8

life lessons by mufti menk -8

1.Don’t allow one moment, one incident, one mistake, one chapter to define your entire life! It doesn’t work that way. Your hardest times often lead to the greatest moments of your life. You may feel your tests are harder than most but the Almighty tests each one of us differently!

2.Whatever you do, don’t change your behavior pattern just to gain people’s approval. Remember, most will only like what you do for them. They’re not interested in anything else. If you’re worried about people liking and respecting you, start by liking and respecting yourself!

3.Whenever you feel defeated, remember that the Almighty is the strength in your weakness. Constantly connect with Him in your daily affairs. Always ask Him to protect you from acting out of irrational decisions that lead to bad consequences. Always take a step back when needed!

4.People will often try to find fault with what you do & who you are. Faultfinders & accusers are aplenty. Don’t pay any heed to them. Don’t let them into your head. Fill your thoughts with how to get closer to the Almighty. Reject the empty chatter that’s trying to distract you.

5.Losing a loved one is never easy; whether sudden or foreseen it’s always heartbreaking. Grief can wreak havoc on our overall well being. That’s why it’s important to stay rooted to the Almighty. Only He can lessen your heartache & comfort you in such times. Seek refuge in Him.

6.Understand that your success will bother some people. In fact, it will offend those who want to control you. They will go out of their way to tarnish your reputation and spread untruths about you. Don’t worry about them. They have no power over you. The Almighty will see to it!

7.Almighty. Keep us away from sinful behaviour. Help those who have fallen into less desirable conditions & gone off course to get back to You. Soften their hearts so they may connect with You again through prayer. Constantly remind us that we’re dependent on You & not ourselves!

8.Growth can be uncomfortable. Don’t resist it. Embrace it because it’s developing your character. It’s building endurance. It’s getting you prepared for the next stage of your development. Thank the Almighty for choosing you. He’s granting favour for your future. Be grateful!

9.The challenges we face can leave us beaten. Couple it with anxiety, worry, stress etc, even the strongest will feel the effects. Remember, everyone struggles with issues in their lives. Having the right attitude to combat challenges are crucial for mental & emotional health!

10.Give generously. It’s not just about money. Give your time, a smile, a helping hand, be a blessing to someone you meet. Have an attitude that’s filled with mercy & kindness. Do all this without expecting anything in return from people. The Almighty will bless you in abundance!