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  life lessons by mufti menk 1. Don’t fall into the trap of letting others snatch away your confidence. People tend to do that with their words and actions. Know their agenda. Don’t shrink back. As long as you’re doing what’s right, go forth. Remember, in the end, only the Almighty’s opinion matters! 2. Never think you’ve messed up too much that the Almighty won’t forgive you. He will & always will as long as you’re repenting & seeking forgiveness. Don’t let Satan make you feel otherwise. So no matter how far you’ve strayed, turn to Him without hesitation! Don’t procrastinate! 3. Almighty. Constantly remind us that eventually everything will work out. You’re in complete control. Help us wait patiently for what You have in store for us. Help us cultivate the right attitude. It’s not easy at times; but let it be worth it. Open the doors before us! 4. Stop stressing over things. The Almighty will work it out for you eventually. You have to trust Him. Remember, you don’t have t...

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 life lessons by mufti menk 1. If you’re always unhappy & discontented with life, check yourself for these symptoms. Are you always criticizing others; complaining that your life isn’t good enough; quick to condemn people or comparing yourself with your neighbors? Stop doing all that & feel the difference! 2. We tend to beat ourselves up over our own mistakes. But we forget that what we see as a mistake, the Almighty uses it to propel us forward to live a life of purpose. So be kind to yourself. Learn from the mistakes. They enable you to grow as a person & become a better you! ‬ 3. The sadness you see, the disappointment you witness, the Almighty knows it all. We all fight battles no one knows except Him. Just remember, He knows all & can help with all. There is no pain He does not understand. There is no struggle He does not know. He is All-Knowing! 4. If Satan can’t trap someone into sinning, be it major or minor, he keeps them busy with trivial acts that have n...

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  life lessons by mufti menk 1. Arrogance at its worst would have you believe that you're always right. You strut around like you know everything. Confidence is humble, quiet & doesn't shout. You’re full of beneficial knowledge & you share it in a manner that doesn’t make the other person feel ignorant! ‬ 2. Nothing good comes from sowing or spewing venom on others. You might “feel” good for a while but trust me, it will cause more problems in the long run. It will come back to haunt you in ways you never imagined. The Almighty will see to it. Best to stay away from such toxic acts. 3. You have the choice to focus on your blessings or your problems. Whichever you choose will either bring about contentment or worry and stress in your life. The more you focus on your blessings the more the Almighty will bestow upon you. He loves a grateful heart. So choose wisely!‬ 4. Worry is one of the biggest thieves around. It can steal your time, rob you of your sleep, affect your p...

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life lessons by mufti menk 1. When your heart is heavy & burdened & your mind sees no way out, that’s when you need to trust the Almighty & depend on Him even more. Don’t entertain negative thoughts from Satan. Rise above it. It won’t be easy but you must do it. Bear utmost patience & He will find a way out! 2. It’s easy to focus on the negatives in your life and start complaining about what’s not good enough or what’s lacking. Don’t do it. Because it will steal your peace and you’ll never be satisfied with what you have, always wanting more. Don’t let your hearts be troubled. 3. Walking around with a heart that’s hardened is one of the worst calamities that can befall anyone. Don’t allow it to reach that stage. Constantly remember the Almighty. Should you feel yourself getting distant from Him, quickly rectify the situation by getting back on track. 4. What’s past is done and gone forever. You can’t go back in time to undo anything. Accept what happened and seek forgiv...

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  life lessons by mufti menk 1. Pleasure and pain. Happiness & sadness. Sunshine and rain. Good days & bad days. This is life. The journey that we’re all on right now. Remember, if you trust the Almighty, there are no sad endings. You’ll reach your destination beautifully. He will see to that! 2. Don’t underestimate the little things you do for others. No matter how small the act, it will come back to you eventually. The appreciation and thank you may be delayed for ages but that’s ok because your reward is truly with the Almighty. So do things out of love, not an obligation! 3. Cultivate a good heart. It takes discipline. It’s hard work. It won’t happen overnight. This is your secret to success in this world & the next. Always have good intentions & learn to be happy for others. Goodwill comes your way and the Almighty will open more doors for you.‬ 4. Almighty. Forgive us for all the times when we were facing problems & were so quick to become discouraged or d...

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  life lessons by mufti menk 1. Some get a big thrill from boasting about their achievements or showing off their possessions. They believe that they’re better than others. They may even end up bossing people around. That’s wrong. Remember, whatever you have, someone will have more! That’s life! Stay humble! ‬ 2. We don’t respond well to being put down & pride gives people that feeling with its “I’m better than you” implications. Humility has the opposite effect. If you put others above yourself, they’ll feel good whenever they’re around you. That will surely have a positive impact! ‬ 3. Take the spite out of your heart. Purify it. Your heart is a small organ. When you fill it with hatred for someone, you’re preventing it from being filled with the love of the Almighty. Always ask Him to protect us from hearts that are consumed by hatred, envy, pride, jealousy! 4. Almighty, in a world that never stops talking, let us learn to appreciate silence. Grant us the ability to listen t...

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life lessons by mufti menk 1. Doubt and disbelief - Satan’s handiwork! Don’t fall prey to any of that. Keep a lid on his whispering that will always come back to you. That is his forte. He will never give up. That’s why you need to bolt the door and focus on your journey ahead. Don’t let him trick you. 2. Almighty. Grant us peace of mind to ease our troubled hearts. The soul feels like a turbulent sea. It’s hard to navigate the troubled waters; we often stumble and worry constantly. Give us the strength and courage to steady ourselves and to stay afloat on the straight path. 3. You want to change things? Shift your mindset. Most things will never change until your mind does! Embrace positivity. Don’t let Satan or anyone mess with your mind. Keep your focus on your goal & work at it. The Almighty never said it’d be easy but He promised it’d be worth it! 4. Don’t always blame circumstances for where you are in life. The Almighty has blessed every one of us with so much, it’s up to u...

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life lessons by mufti menk 1. Life’s a journey; from the Almighty & back to Him eventually. As a traveler you must chart your course based on what He has prescribed for you. You will fail, you will fall & you’ll get up again. Don’t be afraid to make U-turns. Seek His help often. He is the best GPS you have! ‬ 2. Whatever you give attention to grows in importance. Don’t dwell on critics and haters. Focus on your Creator and His plans for you & your life. Don’t worry about those trying to put you down. Your job is to respect others and not to hurt anyone. Do your best. He’ll do the rest! ‬ 3. Don’t brag about your achievements. Don’t make a song and dance about it. Whatever the Almighty has bestowed on you, protect it. Guard your blessings because people tend to ruin it. Yes, even the best of friends and the ones with pure hearts can ruin whatever you have. 4. Tired & weary as you are in your journey, you’re not alone. Your heart feels so much pain. You’re not alone. You ...

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life lessons by mufti menk 1. Don’t behave as you please in front of your children. Words that come out of your mouth should never be swear words. They’ll pick it up in a heartbeat. Control the tongue & your manners too. They’re more likely to follow your example than your advice. Show them the best way! 2. When your heart is broken, you think you’ve reached the end of the road and you feel empty; be careful what you fill it with! Satan is an opportunist. He will cause doubt & unleash evil thoughts; strive to block him out. Turn to the Almighty. Seek His help. Only He can heal you! ‬ 3. Be mindful of your reaction to those who’ve wronged you. Two wrongs do not make a right. You can’t be mean, angry or bitter & expect goodness in return. Don’t become obsessed with revenge. Let the Almighty handle it. Be the better, kinder person always. Rise above it all. ‬ 4. Don’t complicate your life. If you want something done, do it yourself if you can. If you want to change a bad habit...

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life lessons by mufti menk 1. Wake each morning thanking the Almighty because no one knows what each day may bring. No matter what’s going on in our lives, show utmost gratitude. A new day is a gift, a blessing from Him. Not everyone gets it. Some had huge plans for today but didn’t wake up! So thank Him! ‬ 2. Have you been waiting for a while? Waiting for your test to be over; for the Almighty to grant ease; for the bad moments to fade. Waiting is about patience. Patience leads to success. It’s not easy; not for the faint-hearted. It’s based on sincerity & prayer, wisdom & hope! 3. What we see as mistakes can actually be a turning point. The Almighty can turn the mistake into a huge blessing. It’s up to you to see it or are you too busy wallowing in self-pity? Don’t beat yourself up for the mistakes you've made. Use them to propel you to the next level! 4. What people think of you doesn’t matter. In this social media age, we’re fixated on perception; it’s all about what ...